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Authentic Trust

BeckyCortino.comFortune cookie messages are fun to read, aren’t they? Sometimes we pause, wondering what the creator meant. Often they cause us to contemplate what the future holds, or maybe consider how the few words on this little slip of paper may relate, written by someone somewhere who doesn’t even know us.  Has this ever happened to you?

Recently, my fortune cookie message held words that served as a meaningful affirmation. It arrived at the right time, to remind me of the fact that all we do today, and what we did yesterday, builds toward tomorrow.

I well remember that breathtaking moment when clearly I held a golden key in my hand, that could change everything forever… but realized that ‘forever’ is short term at best, and involves a far-greater compromise of values than some may realize, especially at the time such a glittering opportunity serendipitously presents itself.

This fortune cookie message and character-testing opportunities that build professionalism are not just for or about me — everyone is included. Trust is never to be taken lightly, or discarded as irrelevant. It has to be earned every second of every day. There are no overnight successes. The process is ongoing. Tomorrow you go back to work, earning that trust all over again.

Trust is a deep-rooted authenticity that can never be dug up, transplanted nor killed, unless misused by the originator. People will say what they say and do what they do. When well-grounded, truth, honesty and love are forever things.

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Healing Humor, Lifestyle, Live Happy-Be Healthy, Smile Makers

Live Happy-Be Healthy: Add Humor to Every Day

Miles of Smiles

Share Smiles!

I probably don’t have to remind you these are contentious times we’re living in, do I? Yet, the quest for happiness has been around as long as mankind has been in existence. It seems this search to fill that void is never-ending, as attempts are made to acquire that secret something that continues to elude.


Did you know there is a connection between health and humor? If you’re not exercising that funnybone of yours, you may be missing out on getting your recommended daily dose that naturally will elevate your mood, brighten your world, and no doubt make you feel at least a little happier.


Scientific studies indicate that humor and laughter make significant contributions to both physical and mental health conditions:

A stronger immune system and improved cardiovascular health are big results, for a few smiles! 

Stress hormones are reduced, and tensed muscles relax.

With less stress, anger and anxiety are reduced, and joy increases.

A sense of control washes over, and mood becomes more optimistic, with a positive outlook.

Emotional intelligence increases, and an uninspiring, sad, stressful situation or day may then be transformed… 


How humor works, simply:

Humor is an effective coping strategy! Offering a positive means to respond to a crisis, transcending us well beyond the weight of the moment, over the rough spot, into a better place.

Humor (and resulting laughter) come from the essence of our humanness. It is a natural part of who we are! Exercising that funnybone allows us to shift our perspective to a more positive (funnier) viewpoint that is easier to deal with.

Humor and laughter can be a bonding experience for teammates, group participants, even innocent bystanders! A static, uncertain, tension-filled atmosphere is shattered by well-placed, positive humor, becoming a tie that binds us all in our shared moment of humanness.


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Becky Cortino Blog, Lifestyle, Live Happy-Be Healthy, Revel in Possibilities

Beautiful Gift Delivered by an Angel

There are Angels Among Us

We were sure she’d live to be 100 years old. It wasn’t long. She remained vibrant, clear-minded, armed with a spirit and spunk that let you know she’s got this — no problem. Our last visit with her convinced us, with certainty.

Her amazing schedule of gatherings, luncheons, meetings and activities belied her age. Far more active than folks even 20 years younger, we were thrilled to know she was still living an incredibly engaging, full life.

As human prognostications for the future often do, our hopeful prediction proved to be wrong. Exactly 2 days shy of 3 months to the date spent with her, she slipped loose of the surly bounds of this world. Jesus awaited her with open arms. Heaven welcomed another angel into its gates, and this world grew perceptibly colder.

When I heard the news, I was swept away in a relentless tangle of grief and despair. As if the tide was rolling in, dark waves of sadness continued pounding with a resounding thunder, on the eroding shore of my hurting heart. The exhausting ordeal pushed well past early morning hours, through the next day.

A profound sense of unceasing anguish gushed out of me. It was a strange mix of deep loss, blended with a consoling gratefulness that she had touched my life. I felt like a part of my heart was being surgically removed. In place of the gaping hurt, the remaining space was immediately filled with love.

She was one person who could say she knew me since I was born, and was glad for that. She well-understood my life story, and could recite it chapter and verse, loving me unceasingly through every unexpected twist, and uncertain turn.      

Our roots ran so deep, she even recognized when I became personally active in my spiritual life (before hitting double-digits) — and had proof. Certainly she and her family had always been influential in my life, sharing in that aspect as well.

When no Christmas card arrived from her by the usual time this year, I became concerned. Our card went out weeks before, hers was sure to follow. I chuckled, remembering her chiding me a few years ago, when busy with family adventures, I was slow to get our Christmas card and letter mailed. She let me know she liked to hear from me, and then respond to our holiday missive. So noted — and appreciated!

Looking back over her life, one would have to say she really got it when it came to relationships with others. She understood what was important to people, caring deeply about everyone. She was one of those saints you may be fortunate enough to know, who can make you feel you are the most important person in the world to her, without realizing the world is filled with others she was also crazy about.

True love was knowing her, having her in my life, and every visit. In addition to our recent joyous reunion, her powerful eyewitness account clearly confirmed how life was for me, as I grew up. Ever still undergirded with the blessed assurance I had received, gave me safe passage from that place.

Blessing upon blessing, she said she (and my long-departed much-loved grandmother) knew I was going to be alright. Those meaningful words were my precious gift, all wrapped-up with a beautiful bow this Christmas season.

Angels are among us. If you listen carefully, you will hear the Lord speak through them, intending to bless for all time.angels are in our lives

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Becky Cortino Blog, Christmas, Lifestyle, Live Happy-Be Healthy, Revel in Possibilities

Kindness Changes Everything

Kindness Changes EverythingKindness makes all the difference.

Christmastime brings with it traditions, surprises, special gatherings and beautiful blessings… About 22 years ago, a group of ladies gathered to give an abused woman a gift shower to help her in settling into a new, safer life. Every year since then, I’ve received a Christmas card and update from this sweet lady.

Her life hasn’t been easy, but she shares with me how this year  was for her, assuring me that she’s getting on in life amidst challenges and changes. She often shares remembering teaching my sons in music classes. Hearing this warms my heart, making me realize sometimes those ties that bind wrap many times around the heart, don’t they?

Every year I await hearing from her… it’s a Christmas tradition in my heart.


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Herbal Treasures Of Hickory Hollow, Lifestyle

Perfect Gardener Gift

Herbal Treasures Gardener's Planning Journal & Coloring Book

Herbal Treasures Of Hickory Hollow Gardener’s Planning Journal and Coloring Book by Becky Cortino

This is a perfectly useful gift for you, or a favorite gardener! How do I know? As a Volunteer Master Gardener Volunteer graduate (98), I designed it with gardener needs in mind. Ample space is provided to record growing season experience, for planning, and making notes for next year!


Throughout this book, year-round tips and ideas will enhance every garden, with places to sketch-out design ideas for that Dream Garden as inspiration strikes. Coloring features and images scattered throughout provide rainy day enjoyment.


Presented seasonally, this planning journal helps gardeners stay organized, complimented by space for journalling and creativity!


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Gardener’s Planning Journal and Coloring Book also available on Amazon

Becky Cortino Blog, Lifestyle, Live Happy-Be Healthy, Revel in Possibilities

Transformations Surround Us

Butterflies represent an amazing transformation!

Transformations surround us!

Transformations… surround us. Because life is dynamic, things change every day. Transformative events occur, creating a world we never dreamed of before this moment. We’ve been known to have a change of heart… often change our minds… sometimes, we even change directions in midstream!

As sure as we are of things. consistent and stable as we may try to live our lives, it’s obvious we exist in the midst of change. These are the unexpected spaces in our lifetime where we grow in surprising ways — if we embrace them.


I wonder if the lowly caterpillar anticipates of or fears what lies ahead? The ungainly alien-like critter eventually transforms into a well-loved winged delight. It changes into something previously unimaginable — beautiful, taking flight now, as a graceful butterfly!



There is an inherent elegance in change. Not for the sake of it, but for the possible opportunities of personal growth and promised good things to come.


Revel in the Possibilities!



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Happy Friday!

Happy-Happy Friday! I love celebrating the weekend, don’t you? There’s something special about them! I still look forward to the week’s end even when I have no big plans or events scheduled.


Fridays and Weekends are FUN!

Happy Friday! Happy Weekend!

Not long ago, as we were all embarking on a long holiday weekend, a lady I know wished me a nice, long weekend [appreciated] — and, she added — to give me “a break from work.” Her comment made me chuckle, because my life blends work into it like breathing. I’ve lived (and worked) like this for years, and can’t imagine life otherwise. In my world, wishing me a “break from work” is like asking me to hold my breath for an indeterminate time.


This gave me pause to stop and consider her viewpoint. As any parent knows, you don’t ever have a “day off.” She’s a parent, too. When our children grow up, we’re still their parents. She works in a family-owned business, but I think her mindset is very much tuned into “w-o-r-k” at her very own business! Because she’s trapped herself into this perspective, it’s just a J-O-B for her, waiting for the end of every workday, languishing until that next long weekend. Apparently, she has no joy in the job, which makes her time there unpleasant.


Weekends and special days are something to anticipate. Although  I’m fairly certain my work day runs a bit longer than hers, I’m very happy with that. I know nothing else, and realize it has more to do with my personal work style.  I hope my friend gets things arranged the way she’d like. I remember once convincing her a nice piece of business that was literally dropped in her lap was actually a wonderful opportunity, not something to dread (as she was). Eventually she realized it for the profitable, new service it is, and plans to offer it.


Happy Friday — happy weekend! Take time to enjoy this weekend, and every day as you can — make the most of it!



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Showers of Blessings

Showers of Blessings

“I will send down showers in season; there will be showers of blessing.” ~ Ezekiel 34:23b [NIV]

It seems the weather is almost always a popular topic of conversation — maybe in part because it’s something we can agree upon*. Highly unpredictable twists and turns during the 2016 growing season certainly provided endless soundbites and sharing.


According to USDA Drought Monitoring, my area of North Carolina is experiencing drought conditions. This we knew. It was especially evident when our garden went unattended during a recent trip.


While our garden took the turn it did this season, we didn’t feel any less blessed at all. In fact, even in the midst of this dry and crispy season, we’re feeling very blessed!


About 2 months ago, I was assured that what was going to happen in my life was “intended to bless.” Not quite knowing what that was, or how it would be delivered, my mind played with this for a while.


I do have a great imagination, but found it to be no match for the showers of blessing about to rain down upon us! Even with 8 weeks of advance notice, I assure you I’d never have been totally prepared for the dowsing we were to receive!


The deluge began just over 2 weeks ago, and it has not stopped. I’ve discovered I don’t have enough buckets, barrels, baskets or bins to collect all the blessings! Still, they keep coming. I’m running, trying to keep up!


If you know me on the other side of this screen, or online, you probably know I don’t usually run out of things to talk about [I’m a good listener, too by the way]… but at this moment, I’m having a difficulty putting more than 2 words together, to make a sentence. I think my nearly speechless condition is probably because I feel so incredibly blessed, and am busily running to catch all these blessings any way I can.


For now, I think I’ll linger just a bit longer in this blissful place… but I want to assure you that even in times of drought, we are all incredibly blessed.


*meaning weather conditions, not causes of extreme weather


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